fix(imap): 升级 go-imap v2 + \Deleted 落库，修复删除邮件只复制到垃圾桶

删除流程（Apple Mail/iOS 等）：UID COPY→Trash + UID STORE \Deleted +
UID EXPUNGE。此前 go-imap v1.2.1 不支持 UID EXPUNGE（回
Command unsupported with UID），且 \Deleted 只存内存会话 map（重选/
重连即丢失），导致 EXPUNGE 不删原邮件——垃圾桶只有副本、INBOX 原封
不动。

- 依赖：go-imap v1.2.1 → go-imap/v2 v2.0.0-beta.8（原生支持 UID
  EXPUNGE，且库为 race-clean，移除集成测试 !race 标签）
- Message 新增 IsDeleted 字段持久化 \Deleted 标记（AutoMigrate 自动
  加列，SQLite/MySQL 通用；migrate 工具随模型字段自动复制）
- IMAP 层重写为 v2 imapserver.Session 架构（session.go 替代
  backend.go）：SELECT/STATUS/LIST/FETCH/SEARCH/STORE/COPY/MOVE/
  APPEND/EXPUNGE/Poll/Idle；EXPUNGE 按数据库 IsDeleted 删除，UID
  EXPUNGE 只删集合内已标记消息
- server.go：显式能力集（IMAP4rev1+UIDPLUS+MOVE+LITERAL++CHILDREN+
  SPECIAL-USE）；自实现 mailboxHub 跨会话推送（含来源排除，避免 v2
  库 MailboxTracker 对 EXPUNGE/EXISTS 的回声重复响应）；Pusher 接口
  签名不变，Web/SMTP/POP3 调用方零改动；DisconnectByAddr 改用会话
  注册表 + conn.Bye()
- 测试：集成测试改用 v2 imapclient，新增删除流程/跨会话持久化/MOVE
  回归用例；notify_test 适配 hub 推送模型并覆盖来源排除与
  allowExpunge 语义

go.sum

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