feat: 实现对外邮件投递（外发队列 + MX 直投 + DKIM + 退信 + 管理后台）

- 新增 internal/outbound 模块：MX 查询、SMTP 出站客户端（EHLO/STARTTLS/
  MAIL/RCPT/DATA/QUIT）、4xx 临时失败与 5xx 永久失败分类、8BITMIME 支持
- 新增 outbound_messages 队列表与 OutboundStore，后台 worker 指数退避重试
- 永久失败/超限退信到发件人收件箱，包含原因与目标收件人
- 外发邮件使用域名 DKIM 私钥签名（go-msgauth）
- SMTP 提交集成：认证用户可发外部收件人，MAIL FROM 必须等于登录用户邮箱，
  未认证外部投递明确拒绝（防开放中继）
- Web 发信集成：外部收件人自动入队，附件以 multipart/mixed + base64 编码
  加入邮件正文
- 每用户每分钟/每日发送限速（max_per_day=0 可禁用外部投递）
- 管理后台新增外发队列页面：状态统计、失败原因、手动重试/取消
- 新增 [outbound] 配置段并更新 README / todo.md

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