* full thing. works
* works
* minimal changes
* roll back previous changes, move to using the alloc() overrride
* clean up comments
* format
* run clang-format manually.
Trunk may be the absolute worst formatter in existance
* format on WSL to fix trunks awfulness
* add a 3 minute cooldown to prevent messages going back and forth
* add ignoring the dummy neighbor.
* fix or.
* fix spelling, increase logging
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Co-authored-by: Ben Meadors <benmmeadors@gmail.com>